Dude Panel Letters

I'm getting a #dadbod

Don’t judge me. The #dadbod is apparently what all the ladies find sexy (according to Cosmo)—so I’m jumping on the bandwagon. I’m replacing kombucha with Coors Light, morning jogs for cotton joggers, and kale chips with…just…chips. DadBod ...

When It’s Time To Ditch A Guy You’re Dating

Hey babe, Booda here. We just got a question that got me all passionate and rant-y, so I thought I’d write to you and talk about it. A listener wrote in and asked: “Is it possible for a woman to be TOO into sex? A few guys I've slept with make ...

Should I KILL my friend (for being TOO old)?

I once had a friend––a crazy, eccentric friend––tell me that if he ever made it to the age of 35 that I should kill him. Yes. Murder. He told me that by then, he should have accomplished everything he ever wanted, and after age 35 you just ge ...

HOW to be vulnerable (even when you're trembling)

Ugh, Mondays. Right?! Mondays are the beginning of the week for a lot of 9–5ers…but for me…every Monday is the official end of the week before. I go through and finish things that should have been finished a long time ago. Procrastination–– ...

You made me feel this way

It’s morning… A bit later than I usually aspire to rise, but not so late that it’s lost that morning stillness. No street-level rush from the paisas in the polos and booty pants making their way to work. I think back to last week and I find mys ...

let's chat

Hey babe, Long time, no chat. Don’t worry, it’s not you, it’s me. Lot of stuff happening in both my relationship, and Dude Panel, Inc. But we’re only going to talk about the latter today. So let me share some news about the day Booda and I al ...

He doesn't text back? Screw 'em!

Maybe we should to take a break...

My girlfriend and I took a little break... Not in the bad “breakup” kinda way…but space. She decided to stay in Guatemala while I traveled through Central America for 3 weeks on my own. Now we’re back together in Panama and… I’ve discover ...

Booda spied on me!

So Booda went through my search history on our Dude Panel account and looked at all the videos I “liked”… “I can tell what kind of girls you like,” he said. I guess he saw a trend. There was one in particular…she had curly hair, a nose r ...

there's something inside of me...

The sun is setting behind the volcanoes… The clouds have set in real low… And the rain has been falling gently on the roof for hours. When the sun does its blueish-orangey-pink nosedive into the clouds, darkness comes with it. At like, 5’o c ...