So here we are at the doorstep of another Fall Season. It has been a long hot summer here in Utah and in many parts of our country. The cool air brings relief and release of heated energy and the "overcooked" psyche....YEAH and GOODBYE!

So bring on change. Warming soups, teas, colors, falling away of old baggage, cleaning house internally and externally and the most pop out FALL message "adaptability".

Can you adapt? Can you welcome everything and push nothing away? I got put to the test big time on this.

I lost my beloved Mother on August 17th. I was blessed to be with her the last 11 days of her physical life. I was asked to show up adapt and bring my whole self to the experience and be as present as I can be for each precious moment with her.

Through those last days of my mother's life she still shared some nuggets of wisdom and love. A few days before she went into her unconscious state she said to me "people spend so much time being miserable" "Pati are you happy?" I was stopped in my grief state and had to answer...I put aside my overwhelming sadness at the reality that my mother will die soon...and I answered in truth..."Yes Mom I am happy".

My happiness for knowing my mom and having this woman tell me over and over again...as she did for many...."I love you" took my breath away and brought me a new sense of gratitude for my life and the relationships I savor in my life. My happiness for watching this woman deal with loss and trauma in her lifetime and get up and still love and carry on!!

We cannot escape loss, sadness or grief. We may try through alcohol, drugs, distraction, busyness etc.... But my friends as we step in and feel it all...we grow stronger and more joyful as we process our life in a new language relationship with those we adored who have crossed over. The new language of "spirit communication". My mom and I chat often. ♥️

I love you, Pati

              3 Generations of Love Women

                     Bea...Pati and Mollie