Subject: Things Are Changing - Family Play Room (August Edition)

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August  2015


Welcome to the August 2015 edition of The Family Playroom. This space has been designed to offer guidance and tips that will illuminate and ignite hope, laughter and purposeful living.

Enjoy!
Transitions
This month Illumination Counseling and Coaching, LLC is chattering about transitions. We started the month talking about some of the normal transitions that take place as we close summer and enter into the fall season. We discussed the anxiety that kids face as they transition back to school. We also discussed the transition from elementary to middle and middle to high. We gave tips for parents who have to adjust their schedules and regain structure in the home. We also talked about supporting teachers and gave resources/tips to help them manage their classrooms and align the many hats that they wear in the classroom. We also discussed change and transition as a whole.

It is a pretty scary process when you are embarking on something new. We become very comfortable with things that are familiar to us. I know all to well how scary transition can be as I am embarking on something new myself. Since last year I have been working hard on "The Dumping Ground book project". Moving towards authorship has been quite a transition and journey for me. It has been a labor of love, sweat, and tears to produce a book of quality. Things that have crossed my mind during the process are: “Will people read it?”, “Will people look at me differently when they see all of my shortcomings?”, “Am I equipped to write a book?”, “Will I make money?”, and “Will my book help others?” The answer to all of these questions was YES. So despite how I felt I pressed forward. I’m so excited to present my first of many books to the world. The book is called "The Dumping Ground”.

The “Dumping Ground” was birthed out of my inability to set the boundaries that God requires. This topic [boundaries] is very important to me and close to my heart because this area has caused me a tremendous amount of pain and consequences which have significantly shaped the course of my life. Financial losses, sickness, relationship challenges, poor decisions, and a host of other consequences will come if you are unable to set effective boundaries. I found it necessary to share out of obedience to God but also because so many of the people I have encountered have experienced or are experiencing challenges with boundary setting. 'No' is a complete sentence and we must learn to utilize that word to set boundaries for ourselves and learn to set limits when developing relationships with others. 

One on One

An Interview with Latasha Matthews, the author


We sat down and had an in depth interview with our owner, Latasha Matthews regarding her transition into authorship. Take a peek behind the veil and see what there is to expect from “The Dumping Ground”. 


What inspired you to write this book? I was inspired by the hundreds of clients who entered my office struggling with setting and maintaining boundaries. I connected with each and everyone one of them because I too had the same struggles with boundary setting. 

How does your book relate to your life path? The book definitely lines up with my purpose to share and help others gain healing over challenging areas in their life. As I shared techniques and stories about boundary setting it allowed me to seek God in the areas that He desires me to set better limits in. It also gave me the opportunity to present information to those who are struggling with boundary setting to hopefully empower and uplift them on their life's journey to set healthy boundaries.

What overall message do you want readers to grasp? The overall message that I want the readers to grasp is that they aren't alone in struggling with boundary setting and there is hope as well as ways to develop a skill set in this area. 

Did you learn anything from writing your book? If so, what? Yes. I learned that the book writing process was therapeutic for me. I also discovered that boundary setting requires practice, consistency, and hard work. We really have to look inward at the decisions and choices we make and ask ourselves the hard question which is “Why did I make that choice?”

This month we've been talking about change and transitions; please explain this journey of traveling this new path of authoring. The journey has been laced with lots of dips and turns, curves and bumps but it has taught me exciting lessons on perseverance, transparency, honesty, and self-love.

Can you give us an example of a challenging boundary that you've had to set in your life? One of the areas that I am currently working on is financial boundary setting. As a business owner I am almost forced to set strict boundaries on spending, however my mind and behaviors don’t always line up with my new life as an entrepreneur.

What can readers who enjoy your book do to help make it successful? Readers can share the book, tell their friends, and let everyone know about my dumping ground groups that will teach boundary setting skills. They can also share my upcoming series topics with others: The Dumping Ground for teens, The Dumping Ground for Couples, and The Dumping Ground for Business Owners. Follow me on Twitter and FaceBook @illuminationcc for updates and information regarding the launch of these groups and book signings. 

Is there anything else you'd like to say? Please purchase my book or buy it as a gift for someone who might benefit from it. Stay plugged in for my upcoming book release. See you out and about soon! 
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