For years you have believed a lie that has destroyed your relationships with men.
You’ve believed that “playing hard to get” was the secret to making a man pay more attention to you.
But there’s a huge problem with this “technique”:
You’re playing.
And the real truth is, you always get what you are. Loving women attract loving men. Sexy women attract sexy men. Women who play get played.
Period.
There’s a difference between “playing” and being playful. Being playful rocks. It brings lightness and fun to an interaction.
Guys want to feel elevated in the presence of women. That’s why huge hurricanes of emotion scare us. (Not to say that you can’t be emotional with a man, but note the use of the word ‘hurricane’.)
The real truth behind “playing hard to get” is that a man doesn’t want to feel like you depend on him for your happiness. But instead of pretending like you don’t depend on him for your happiness, why not make that a reality?
If you’re not already passionate—become so. Open up that closet and pull out those paintbrushes. Put on the running shoes. Use that Groupon for buy one get one free tango lessons.
Have passion. When you’re passionate, you naturally become playful.
And playful is sexy.
Be sexy,
Obi
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