Frank Ocean is singing through my laptop speakers...
I just killed a big glass of orange juice...
I'm writing this letter to you...
And I'm happy.
I was actually just talking to Dave Booda about this earlier today.
What could a woman do to make a man truly happy?
We thought about it for a second, but the answer was clear:
A man is most happy when you can make him feel like a man.
In that moment, in your presence, with his restlessness quiet, and he's settled in his masculinity, drinking in everything feminine about you...
Something new arises...a feeling deep within him that is grounding, pleasurable and fulfilling.
And he takes it with him, he carries it throughout the day, and he can think back on you fondly knowing that it was you that sparked it.
And it may sound abstract and strange but just understand that it's powerful, and a man that feels it moves through the world with power and he loves that feeling.
And you have this ability to make any man you want feel like a man and when you can do that at will, there is no man who wouldn't want you in his life at all times and in all places.
Now I could list off quite a few ways that you can do this, but then I would be robbing you of what I'm going to share with you next week...
So what I'm going to do instead is let you know that one of our favorite dudes, Jason, is heading off to greener pastures and will no longer be a part of our panel.
You could do something really sweet and make him feel like more than a man by shooting him a quick message and thanking him for any insight he gave you if you learned anything from his videos:
Because guys like hearing sweet things too.
Don't you forget that. :)
Until tomorrow, Obi
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