Don't worry, we're not breaking up or anything.
In fact, it's the exact opposite.
I want us to take our relationship to the next level.
You see, at some point in the past year you asked one (or all) of our Dudes a question, and hopefully we gave you some insight.
And I promised that I would be in touch a lot more than I have been...
So...I want you to know that I'm ready to change.
I want us to talk more. I want to know what's on your mind. I want to be able
to tell you things.
I want us to be friends.
I'm actually on the market for a new best friend. I used to have
one. She was great. She knew everything about me, we did
everything together, and we even had cute little nicknames for
each other.
But then she got married and I guess her husband didn't like how
close we were. Things got a bit "weird" and now we don't talk.
Whack. I know.
But this isn't about her...it's about us.
From this moment on, I'm going to be a good friend to you. I'm
going to send you letters––everyday. I'm going to let you
know what I'm thinking. If you have questions about Dudes, you
can ask me. I'm going to give you tips and ideas and I'm going to
challenge you.
I want to help you understand men. If you're not currently in a
relationship (and you want to be), I'm going to help you get one.
If you're in a relationship and your man confuses the f**k out of
you, I'm going to help you make sense of it. And if I can't help
you, then I'm going to send you links to friends of mine who can.
That's my promise to you, k?
And if that doesn't sound awesome to you, then you can click the
link at the bottom of the email to unsubscribe from these
letters.
If this sounds like exactly what you've been wanting all your
life, then you can reply with a sweet message and tell me so.
Also, feel free to let me know how handsome you find me and what
kind of delicious meal you would make for me if we were to meet...
because guys like to hear nice things too. :)
Okay, that's it for today. I'm going to go make breakfast out of a Fuji apple and
some cheap coffee.
You stay sexy, okay.
Love,
Obi
PS. Here's a video of Adam talking about what he thinks about
your gay friend: http://youtu.be/8J1EJvOncKE
PSS. I think this is the start of something really beautiful. |
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