Hey you…
I’m back home, sweaty and glistening after a morning run on the beach…
And I find myself inspired by these words:
“Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being.”
Not only is this a good philosophy for Life, but it’s a great way to turn any guy friend, classmate, or co-worker into your boyfriend.
How?
Think about this:
A friendship is a "tension-free" environment. That’s why they are so easy-breezy and comfortable. That’s great for when you want to wear sweatpants, eat ice cream, and watch Scandal on Netflix…
But it’s not good for boyfriend-making.
To do that you need to create some tension. (And I don’t mean DRAMA…I mean tension. They may look the same in your brain but they are quite different in real life.)
One repels men…
The other makes them putty in your hands.
We talk a lot about how to do it “right” in the Boyfriend Recipe.
Listen here:
“The Boyfriend Recipe”
Until next time, boo,
Obi |
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