The role of speaking technique in improving your speech. Is it important or not?

May 9th, 2013 at 11:20 am EEST

I get this question A LOT!

"Do I have to learn a physical technique to
improve my speech and eventually overcome
my stuttering challenge?"

When I first decided to do something about
my speech, I believed that learning a speaking technique
is the way to overcome my stuttering.

I was WRONG!

In fact I failed countless times just because of
this belief.

Oh and I WASTED lots of money too.

Improving your speech has nothing to do with
learning a "magical" technique, which will "fix"
your stuttering overnight.

If that is your expectation, you are not on the
right track and unfortunately you'll never achieve
your speaking goals with that mindset and approach.

Sorry, but I am being totally honest with you here.

There is no magical technique, which will "fix our
stuttering" in a couple minutes... like a pill.

In fact, most of the speaking techniques which are
promoted as "stuttering solutions" are not even
applicable in real life speaking situations.

If you have tried those before, I am sure you know
what I mean.

HOWEVER,

There is something which is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT
and makes all the difference.

...and if you want to improve your speech, you NEED TO
KNOW this.

Improving your speech has nothing to do with
learning a "magical" technique, which will "fix"
your stuttering overnight.

BUT...

Learning effective speaking tools, techniques and
strategies is very important when it comes to improving
your speech and eventually overcome it.

Are you confused yet?:)

I know this is confusing. When I first learned it,
it frustrated the hell out of me too. So, let me make it
clear for you.

Speaking tools and techniques is NOT "THE SOLUTION",
however it is a critical aspect of the OVERALL PROCESS.
The process of improving your speech to a great level!

What do I mean by this?

If your mentality is "lets learn a technique and cure my
stuttering", I don't think you have even a slight chance
to achieve that goal.

However, if your mentality is "let me learn the best and
most effective speaking tools and techniques, so I can use
them in real life situations to build up my confidence and
be able to face my fears" THEN that's a TOTALLY DIFFERENT
story.

Think about it;

How would you feel if deep down YOU KNEW that you have the
necessary tools and techniques which you can use in your daily
life to speak better?

Would you start using them in challenging situations such as
on the phone, talking to a stranger, saying your name, in class,
at work, ordering food, while out with friends, etc.?

Of course you would!

But the solution is NOT you using a technique which
will enable you to speak better, but what you do
with those techniques to eliminate the FEAR OF SPEAKING!

At this point, you're probably wondering what you need
to do.

Here is a basic step-by-step model for you, when it comes
to improving your speech.

Step-1:
Learn the best and most effective speaking tools,
techniques and strategies. The ones which are realistic,
easy to apply and used by others successfully. Check out
this video for that.

Step-2:
Use those techniques in real life speaking situations
to face your fears and challenge your limiting beliefs.
Once you start to get positive results in your speech,
you'll prove yourself that YOU CAN do it.

...and that will start to CHANGE your limiting beliefs and
will also increase your confidence.

Step-3:
Once you build that confidence with practice, start letting
go the techniques. Because, after you reach a point, you'll
realize that you don't really need "techniques" to be able
to speak the way you want to.

Speaking tools and techniques are just crutches to get
you to your goal, they are your best friend while improving
your speech, but once you achieve your speaking goal, you
need to let them go and stop thinking about them as much.

There will be times which you might need them to manage
a very challenging speaking situation, but those times are
the only times you'll need to refer to and use them.

Wow, it wasn't a short email, but I thought this was
such an important question which needed to be addressed
for your success.

Hope this answered your question and I was able to explain
it clearly.

Warning: Not all techniques are good and effective though.
There are good ones and bad ones. There are ones which you
can use and ones which can only be applied in therapy rooms.

That's why I wanted to put together SDOGTP to show you
and share the best and most effective speaking tools, techniques
and strategies with you.

There are more than 30 of them in there, which I go over and
show you exactly how they need to be practiced and used
in real life speaking situations.

You can watch this video to learn more about those tools and
techniques.

They are effective, easy to apply, can be used in daily situations
and are compiled as a result of what other successful stutterers
used to improve their speech!

I definitely recommend you to at least watch the video I created
for PWS like you, who are going through what I had gone through
for years.

Hope this article helped and you now know the role of
physical technique in improving your speech and eventually
overcoming it.

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions or need
further help.

All the best,

Your friend,

Chazzler

P.S: Don't miss the video, people LOVED it... Here is the link for it.