How To Speak More Smoothly WITHOUT Using Any Speaking Technique!

October 22nd, 2014 at 9:58 pm EEST

Do you know that we (as PWS) can dramatically
improve our speech WITHOUT doing
a single thing with our speech at all?

I mean, without working on any
speaking technique whatsoever.

Yes I know it sounds unrealistic, but give
me 60 seconds of your time and I'll explain you
"how" in this email.

Just answer this question for me...

Do you have days which your speech just
flows a lot easier and smoother? 

You know... you get less blocks and you stutter less.

You probably can't explain the exact reason
but your speech just flows in a much better way!

Now imagine one of those moments...

How were you feeling overall in that day?

1) Sad? Down? Frustrated?
OR
2) Confident? Happy? Positive?

Probably 2, right?

After meeting and working with quite a number of
PWS in my life, I realized that one big thing
which has the GREATEST effect on any PWS's speech
is CONFIDENCE!

Now I'm sure you are thinking...

"Oh well it's easy to say that, but how can I be confident
if I stutter
that badly and block severely?"

And my answer to that is...

You work on OTHER areas of your life which will
bring you confidence. If you are not getting that
confidence from your speech, then you'll need to
get it from other areas of your life...at least for now.

There are 3 major parts of our life which
sets our happiness(this is true for everybody
not only PWS by the way).

1) Relationships
2) Money
3) Health/Fitness/Beauty

You start seeing a new girlfriend/boyfriend and that
"feeling of confidence" reflects on your speech!

You start making more money and helping your loved
ones and you suddenly start to feel more valuable and
confident...and that reflects on your speech!

You start taking care of yourself, working out and looking
good...and that skyrocket your confidence,which ofcourse
reflects on your speech!

There is one big fact I've observed in almost all PWS, and
that is...

If you feel more CONFIDENT(in any way), your speech
will come out better, because your inner game is better.

Your emotions, thoughts and beliefs about yourself shifts
big time.

Did you actually do anything with your speech? No.

The shift happened in your inner game and the main
reason is "you building up confidence in other parts
of your life".

So what I suggest you to do is to start working on things
which will build up your confidence in those 3 major areas
of your life.

RELATIONSHIPS, MONEY, FITNESS.

When I talk about this subject, I almost always get this
same question...

"But Chazzler... How do I do it? Where can I get help in
those areas of my life? Can you suggest any online resources
for me?"

So, let me share what I think you need to start learning about
in order to build up confidence in those areas of your life and
then I'll share some recommended online resources for you.

However, don't hold me accountable for these resources.
Please check those yourself and make your own decision.
You be the judge of whether they are helpful or not for you.

OK, here is my list of what to do and where you can get help
from in those areas...

1) For RELATIONSHIPS; learn more about dating and attraction.

You can check this website: Dating for men and women

Or these 2 videos/products:
* Dating for men
* Dating for women

2) For MONEY; learn more about entrepreneurship, business
and marketing.

For internet based businesses: Eben Pagan, Brendon Burchard
For internet marketing: Frank Kern
For general marketing: Dan Kennedy

3) For HEALTH/FITNESS/BEAUTY; set yourself a goal and
start taking care of yourself and working out regularly.

I didn't use any of these resources before, but people say
these 2 online resources are the best in that field.

* If you're a woman click here
* If you're a man click here

Hope some of those resources help.

Again, you don't have to wait until you speak well to
feel more confident!

Don't be one of those people who say:
"I'll feel confident when I start speaking fluently"

Just say:
"I'll go work on other 'happiness source' and
'confidence builder' areas of  my life and I'll
let that change reflect on my speech in a very
positive way"

Go ahead, try it...and see how this will affect
not only your overall life and confidence but also
your speech in an indirect(but very positive) way.

All the best,

Chazzler

P.S: I tried to name a few resources for you but you
don't have to go with those, you can search and find other
resources as well. All I care about is you working on those 3 critical
areas of your life and start building that unshakeable confidence;)

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