| Hi,
I hope you are doing extremely well!
Yesterday I had a long talk with a good friend of mine who is facing different problems in his life.
After we talked, I was still thinking, thinking about the 7 billion people on this planet and each one of them experiences one problem or another.
When people are faced to what they label as 'a problem', 'an obstacle' or 'a challenge', they have the tendency to focus on the problem at the effect side.
Let's say you are facing serious financial problems, these financial problems are a RESULT, an EFFECT of beliefs and behaviors you adopted.
Are you to blame then? NO!!!
What I'm trying to say is that YOU are at the base of all what happens in your life. So starting to blame someone else: your spouse, your boss, the bank, ... is completely useless.
The ONLY way to get clear on this is to watch which part of you needs your loving attention: financial difficulties are the result of beliefs on money you adopted since your childhood, beliefs on your self-worth, ...
You somehow, because of what you heard and decided to believe in all those years, created the conviction that money is hard to get, that being financially wealthy is a struggle, that having lots of money is not destined for you.
Is there a way to change that? Surely, there is.
The best way to start is to watch your feelings around your problem, instead of running away from the feeling, trying to frenetically solve the problem on a mind level and/or blaming external situations.
Clearing yourself from the pressure you have been putting on yourself, acknowledging these feelings, welcoming them, nurturing them and sending love to yourself for the courage you have to address this, is a first step.
Does this pay your bills tomorrow? No, not immediately, BUT when you are in a place of worry or stress, your brain has difficulty to focus on something else AND when you love, accept and forgive yourself first, you start to relax.
In this state of peace, your creativity starts to burst, gives you new ideas and makes you looking for opportunities.
Further on, your relaxed state makes you enjoying your life again, the sun on your face, the smile of another person, being grateful for the small things in life ...
This state of joy is the highest possible vibration!!!
People and situations will come on your way that respond to this vibration and it is a priority to keep training yourself to be in this high joy vibration.
I use different tools and techniques daily to do this for myself and for my clients. I am finishing my program: START THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS and will present it to you in a few days.
I will offer the possibility to a limited number of people to work with me personally and would be so thrilled to help and guide you where I can!
Wishing you an awesome day, Sending you loving energy, Barbara.
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