My dear, dear friend,
When I was younger, for many years I have accepted disrespectful behavior from other people because I thought I wouldn't be a good person if I walked away or didn't listen anymore to their complaints and blaming.
Through working with mentors, through overcoming challenges, through working myself with so many clients, I have come to see that the fear of rejection often makes us allow certain behavior from others that is not good for us.
Are you allowing someone to treat you in a disrespectful way because you fear to lose that person? Or because you want their approval badly?
Remember that it is a form of self-abuse to allow others to treat you disrespectfully. It is not necessary to lower yourself to fight but you can walk away with grace and dignity.
Remember that you deserve only good, happiness and abundance in your life.
I know at a very profound level that unless you fully love yourself, you are not able to fully love another human being.
I also know that you are always loved and divinely supported, listen to the whispers of your soul and see the signs. Don't be blinded by the glitter of the world, but let your pure light shine.
As always, loving you, Barbara.
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