Hey Friend, How do you go with setting and enforcing boundaries?
So often I hear of leaders making personal sacrifices for the purpose of fulfilling a work task. And while this is SOMETIMES required, it should not be a regular practice.
If you're someone who is always available, willing to work long hours and never say 'no' to requests then this will become what others expect. They won't consider what you're missing in order to deliver what they need. And those sacrifices, over time, can have big consequences in our life.
🏃♀️ Perhaps you miss out on exercise or resort to eating food that is quick and easy over what is nutritionally beneficial.
👨👩👦 Maybe you miss out on putting your kids to bed or helping them with their homework or general life issues.
🍷Maybe you miss seeing your friends and your circle reduces to the people you work with.
🤦♀️ Or maybe you miss the opportunity to build the capability of your team because you're so busy fulfilling the requests of others.
You can never get back the time you miss doing things that are important to you. And while I'm a huge supporter of saying 'yes' to opportunities, it has to be the exception and not the rule. |