6. - If you have a family historian, instead of them finding great-grandma’s fruit cake recipe, request they tote along the photo albums and recently scanned pictures that contain images going back generations.
7. – Pull out the photos, slide carousels, negatives, and home movies from yesteryear and get them digitized before the gatherings. 8. – Get everyone involved to unlock their vault of pre-digital snapshots.
9. – Share the stories from magical memories, but not politics.
10. – What unites is creating healthy discourse and sharing nostalgic family photos, rather than waging a political minefield of bellicose bickering.
11. – Instead of shrieking and whooping at each other, reminisce.
12. – Instead of lunging at each other, laugh.
13. - Instead of screaming at each other, cry (happy tears) together as you revisit past photos, slides, film, and home movie keepsakes. |