🎧 💓 📣 SUMMiT 2 AiR DATES: M-F, March - April 2021
"Destructive Habit 1: Case-Building
You gather evidence to use against your partner, including guilt, blame, and shame, to argue your case. You want to be understood but you don’t care about understanding your partner. Building a case leaves your partner alienated & feeling bad, stupid, and wrong.
New Habit 1: Connection-Building
You choose to build a connection from understanding, compassion, acceptance, & support. When you do this, you fill your relationship with trust, intimacy, openness, and honest communication."
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"Destructive Habit 2: Storytelling
You get stuck in destructive and defensive stories. The unexamined story is experienced as reality. You become convinced that your story is true without discussing it with your partner.
New Habit 2: Story-Busting
The mind is a meaning-making machine. Check to see if the meanings are accurate. Story busting helps you break free from old stories that don’t help you or your relationship. Meet your partner with
openness and curiosity.""
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"Destructive Habit 3: Message-Assuming
“The normal outcome of most communication is misunderstanding.” ~ Marshall Rosenberg
“When Mind Reading Goes Bad:
Message Said versus Message Heard”
… The message sent is rarely the message received. Assuming you know what your partner meant to say leads to confusion, misunderstandings, & upsets. Assuming that you were heard & understood is also dangerous.
New & Improved Habit 3: Message-Clarifying
Check in on a regular basis during important conversations. Make sure that what the other person understands is what you are trying to communicate. If you are listening, make sure to repeat back what you think you heard your partner say."
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"Destructive Habit 4: Cup-Stuffing
“When you listen with empathy to another person, you give that person psychological air.”
~ Stephen R. Covey
When your partner is full of emotion & dealing with problems, or just hyper-focused, they can’t hear you. If you demand their attention when their cup is already full, you rarely get what you want. Instead, you get explosions, meltdowns, & withdrawal.
When you try to get someone to listen to you or do something for you when they are already emotionally or physically overwhelmed, you are Cup-Stuffing. The person’s emotional cup is already full & you’re trying to fit more in.
New & Improved Habit 4: Cup-Emptying
Listen first, & then offer empathy: it will help empty your partner’s cup. Also, take the time to empty your own cup."
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May You & Yours Be Well All Ways.
