We all know that a person can be asshole if they disrespect your boundaries. But what if you have healthy boundaries and someone thinks you’re being an asshole for not giving them what they want? What they believe is a request for support is really an energy hook.
They may have learned that to get what they needed they had to hook someone with their energy, create conflict, withhold information, say something shocking, manipulate with their suffering. They didn’t get what they needed without disrupting someone’s energy field.
When you start using tools to manage your energy boundaries, people who are used to getting in your space may think you are an asshole. Particularly those who are used to taking more than they give... | 
