Maybe you don’t have an actual checklist or spreadsheet.

But there’s some part of you that wants to please and/or get what you want so much that you go all into your head about it.

One time I was dating this man who was very kind to me. I liked him but didn’t LIKE him.

I remember negotiating with myself like this:

"Well… I mean, we COULD have a relationship.”

“We’re getting to the point of knowing each other where this should happen.”

The whole time I just wasn’t feeling it.

But I was really TRYING to feel it. With my whole being I wanted to feel “it” for him.

To make things worse, I had tricked myself into a scarcity mindset around love and romance.

“There aren’t that many men around here.”

“He’s really nice.”

“He probably has a kind family.”

“Dating has been hard lately. So I better take ‘it’ when I can get it.”

If you’re doing this, I don’t blame you.

Sometimes we WANT things to work out but we have so much standing in the way that we aren’t actually aligned with the romance we actually want.

Or we don’t even want to admit to what we want because things have been so hard. 

If you see yourself in this, I totally understand. And, I want to encourage you to just let it go.

You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. 

You don’t have to people please and feel pressured when someone wants something you aren’t ready to give. 

Even if you’re just IMAGINING they want something from you. 

Or they look at you a certain way and you just ‘know’ they want you.

Or if you have to deal out some real rejection and have been stalling, hoping things might change.

It’s not easy and I see you.

But here’s your reminder that you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. 

You don’t have to settle for less than what you really want.

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Talk soon,

Elizabeth