How many times have you dented your self-confidence by attempting to please everyone?
- One time
- Three times
- Ten times
- Countless times
Me? Countless times! That is until I realized in my heart not everyone is going to like me or like what I do ...and that it's okay.
Oh, we all know that it intellectually (with our brain) whereas our heart is a very different story. Sometimes we feel hurt without realizing it until later ...when it starts to show up in other places in our life.
It hurts when we feel invisible or wrong or like we may not be the sharpest tool in the shed. Sometimes, we know we are smart and did something well and right and someone still may not like it or us. Ouch!
Here's something that made all the difference to me. It might for you too... - 25% of people won't like you no matter what
- 25% of people won't like you, but may be persuaded to
- 25% of people will like you, but may be persuaded not to
- 25% of people will like you and will stand behind you no matter what
Click Reply to this email and let me know how many times YOU have dented your self-confidence this way and how you feel differently now that you see what's really going on. For more info on this topic, read my article, "4 Ways To Keep Unkind Opinions From Hurting You" at YourTango Click HERE to read full article. |