These are the definitions of self-love stored in your subconscious mind that have been passed down for generations.
QUESTION: How can you possibly even WANT to love yourself if you believe it means you are egotistic, a narcissist, selfish, etc.?
ANSWER: YOU CAN'T. That's why these old beliefs keep you from developing self-love.
WHAT YOU CAN DO: - Understand that you (like everyone else) automatically hold these old, outdated, self-sabotaging beliefs. It explains why self-love can seem difficult and prevents you from beating yourself up.
- You may think you can change these beliefs by simply speaking or thinking differently but that is temporary, at best. Plus, it requires consistent focus and effort because talking and thinking can change your conscious mind but your beliefs are buried in your SUBconscious mind (a much deeper level).
- Beliefs can be changed at the SUBconscious level permanently in just a few minutes using energy work I do with clients. (If investing in your future is an option for you, feel free to apply for a free Clarity Call with me.)
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Allow the clarity to bring you peace and greater confidence that you are already doing things right and are in good company in those times when self-love is a challenge.
You ROCK! Kelly |