We've been talking about how self-sabotage sneaks into all areas of our lives, Friend.
Significant other, friend, family and coworker relationships are easy opportunities to mess things up with self-sabotage! Yikes. 😟
It's easy to sabotage more than one of these relationships at a time too. That's because of what I mentioned in the previous emails...
Your subconscious mind lives to protect you and to prove you right. So, if you have negative self-talk, beliefs, insecurities (who doesn't?), etc., it want's to show you that you are correct.
Kind of a terrible BFF (best friend forever) unless you really know how to tap into it and turn it toward your best interest rather than just going along with you.
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Relationship self-sabotage
Choosing bad-boys or unavailable men, wanting things to be perfect, cheating, not doing your own personal growth work to be a good catch for the guy you want, burning bridges before things get serious to avoid being hurt if they fall apart. The "no one will ever love me" belief comes from "I don't love me" junk that's embedded in your subconscious mind and needs to be deleted.
Imagine what it's like to love yourself so much that others genuinely love you too. 😊 And visualize yourself feeling completely deserving of it all!
With your family and friends, feeling unworthy of their love will cause you to block yourself from their help or support, to fight with them or be untrusting or suspicious when they care about you.
At work, feeling undeserving of success, an easy way for your subconscious mind to prove you truly aren't deserving is to pick fights, be difficult to work with, do less than your share of the work, steal from or blame others for your mistakes.
From Self-Sabotage To Rockin' Results Workshop info
NONE of these mean you're a bad person, just that you have some emotional baggage to release so you can feel good about yourself again... or for the first time.
Read Nancy's story below. The VERY SAME DAY we did energy work, two successful men asked her out as she was walking in her town!
Friend, when YOUR energy shifts, EVERYONE feels it. 😉