Friend,
In 1988, shortly after I began my journey into personal development in order to save myself, I was introduced to the concept of 'self-parenting'. It would take years for me to learn to fully apply it to my own life.
I learned that inside each of us is a child-like (several actually) emotional imprints created by heightened experiences from our childhood; we call this the 'inner-child'. These are emotional pain points that continue to play out in our lives and perpetuate their pain until they are resolved.
Much of the challenges you experience in life (especially those recurring patterns of pain, fear, sorrow, anger, doubt, insecurity) have their origin in painful experiences and are held within your inner child.
I myself have 4 inner children, all of whom I now fully understand, embrace and have healed by fully stepping up to self-parent.
And yes, you guessed it, YOU are the ONLY one that can heal them because they are inside of YOU. Until then, you will try to fix your inner pain by someone or something outside of yourself - which DOES NOT WORK! This is your work to do!
Ironically, as humans we continue to try and find outer solutions, gather knowledge and understanding to alleviate the continual resurfacing of these pains - to no avail.
The work is deep, its delicate and it's necessary if you are to have a life of emotional freedom.
My specialty is helping you do this.
To that end, I'm about to begin the creation a program to help women discover and heal their inner child. It's a labor of love and one that I see is greatly needed. It's described on my website as the DUO process - Downward (into your inner space to meet and heal your inner-child(ren), Upward (into your soul to meet and integrate with your highest self) Outward (into the spiritual connection to our creator, necessary to maintain the sense of connection, belonging, faith and empowerment). This is full-circle healing and my specialty.
To reclaiming your life Friend ❤
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