Subject: Is this your purpose?

Maybe it's not...

What is your life purpose?


It’s probably not what you think it is. 


I think you are already fulfilling your life purpose right now as you read this. 


We have this notion that our life purpose is something we do


It’s your work, being a parent, being a healer, serving god, bringing a message into the world, creating music or art, being rich and famous…


Those things are beautiful and important but I don’t think that what you do is your life’s purpose. 


I don’t think your purpose is something you have to seek and find and carry out in your lifetime. 


That’s because…


I believe your purpose is to exist as you. 


To exist and be you. 


And there isn’t some kind of specific you that you must be. 


You already are you. You can’t help it. You already are this unique constellation of thoughts, feelings, life experiences, perspectives and expression. 


You can’t help that. You can be nothing but that. 


And to be exactly that, is your purpose. 


And you are already fulfilling it. You can’t help that either. 


Even if you have judgement about what kind of person you are. Even if you think you are disappointing or pathetic or not enough or different than you think could be... 


How you are is your purpose. 


You are a specific note in the orchestra of life. You can’t help that. You just are. 


So really your only task is to stop trying to sound like anything else and ALLOW YOU so that your note can ring out pure and true. 


Whether it’s a soft note or a loud one is irrelevant. 


The only thing that matters is that you let yourself be it. 


How do you do that?


You love yourself. You give yourself permission to exist. You understand that your note is unique and letting yourself be that note, is your purpose. 


And you ask the Love Question over and over to make your choices because it helps you uncover your real self more and more - and that is your purpose. 


And it’s beautiful. 


Click on this video to watch a one minute clip of a moment with the group in my course about purpose.




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Who is Eilat Aviram?

Eilat is a Daring Decisions Teacher. For the past twenty-five years she has been helping people DARE to love themselves in the choices they make.


A clinical psychologist, best-selling author, speaker, hypnotherapist and energy-healing teacher, she works with groups, individuals, organisations and healthcare professionals around the world teaching a simple and powerful method for making good, self-loving decisions that satisfy both the mind and heart and benefit the greater community.


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