Greetings, Beautiful Human!
The best thing we can do to honor our Mothers, isn't to be just like them but to surpass them. We have the ability to reach our highest potential and experience greater happiness, serenity, and affection in life by releasing our past attachments, limiting beliefs, and emotional patterns.
Many of these cycles are handed down as societal norms; they, too, desired a better and different version of life but weren't afforded the opportunity of new conscious knowledge.
As a Spiritual Coach, I often hear from many of my clients who are mothers that they feel overwhelmed with guilt and shame over the mistakes they've made while raising their children. It's completely understandable and normal to feel this way, and I want to assure you that you are not alone.
I, too, am healing Mother Wounds and ancestral karmic energies. It may not seem like it, because I have been healing my path a little longer. Remember that parenting is a journey, and mistakes are a natural part of that process. Tearing down familial strongholds, teaching, and conditioning requires looking deeper into your belief structure and acknowledging what is no longer serving your life.
Let's always bring to our awareness, are mothers and their moms didn't have ways to overcome their feelings, doubts, insecurities, or wounds from the mothers. However, today you can support their growth and the development of your children by forgiving your Mom and helping heal her without bringing up the past.
Please be patient with your journey. Honor your parents for the lessons and growth that have strengthened your resolve and acknowledge their journey of struggle and limitations of their generation and place them in a circle of light with you this weekend as you honor Mother's Day. Showing her compassion and sending unconditional love to her can make a huge difference. She may have a story of pain buried deep in her heart that you may not know about.
On this Mother's Day, it's essential to recognize and celebrate the brave efforts of mothers in raising children. Let's show appreciation for the times when the going got tough, the journey felt isolating, or when mothers gave more than they thought possible. Spread love to all on this special day!
Happy Mother's Day!
*Sending Reiki to you now, place your hands over your heart, close your eyes, take a nice deep breath, and forgive yourself and forgive her. Now send her that same love and begin ending the cycle of guilt and shame because today, you are the family's heart. Your healing heals the future of your children.
Namaste
DEMETRIAH ANNENAYAH