We believe that if we live in denial, avoid, run or hide from it; it will change all on its own. But, continuing to exist in our toxic environment is the fastest way to increase unhappiness, lack of love, and financial instability; as a result, we cannot maintain our mental, emotional, and physical health.

To get massive outcomes and experience transformation, we must do something bold, daring, and radical so that we can begin living the life we deserve and love. No one is just going to hand it to us, and if they did, would we be able to honor, embrace and accept their offering with no questions asked and no recoiling back into our old toxic ways of being?

So, here's the biggest problem.

We're all so cautious regarding our relationships and money because we have unconsciously learned behaviors in response to emotional triggers, making it almost impossible for us to change. So, we latch on to our fears for dear life, refusing to let go even though we kow we should. How does that saying go...the devil you know blah blah blah. It falsely makes us feel in control (while secretly becoming complacent) in our toxic life. 

It's the biggest catch-22 ever. 

So, we try something different or new but never alter what we believe or feel, only to experience the same pattern of failure, loss, and lack.

90% of the population gives up, feeling hopeless and dreadful.

Our marriages and career options fail.

Money is ever increasingly hard to hold onto with the inflation pikes.

We are lost without purpose or reason to get up every morning to do it all over again.

It's time to break through the illusion.

Putting an end toxic living is = emancipation.

Listen, if it were easy, everybody would have done it already. However, you don't have to be a spiritual guru to do this either.

Listen, it's just that not everyone is willing to take the risk toward life changes without a guarantee which is why we all root for the underdog and enjoy stories about people who overcame the odds. They're our champions and our heroes because they give us hope. 

The most painful for me, is watching others take steps toward their aspirations only to give up because they were impatient, fool hearty, and did not have the right tools. I find it even more painful when I see people quitting on themselves before they even begin. It's heartbreaking for me that so many of us fall into this trap. 

And by your replies yesterday, some of you have been there and back. Check out some of yesterday's email replies.

[My marriage died years ago but I stayed for our kiddos]

It looks like I wasn't alone when I lost myself in the relationship.

[I don't know how you did it]

The hardest part for me is dealing with trying to be perfect. Smiling and laughing, pretending to be carefree when all the while I'm crying on the inside.

[will this help me launch my screenplay writing career]

I don't even write anymore. It was my happy place. Sick of being rejected, I just settled into mediocrity, like everyone else. Your email series has given me pause for hope. Please help!

The truth is that we are all just one small step away from turning loneliness into love or trading perfection for peace...if we'd take a step toward ending our ties with toxic living. 

That's all it takes. 

If you want to end toxic living, take that first step. Acknowledge where you are and make the decision to put an end to toxic living.

Problem #1: Focusing all your time and energy on people, places and things that kept you stuck in toxic roles. Fatal Error #2: Neglecting your truth, betraying yourself, and accepting less than you are worth hurts.

The Big Lie #3: Pretending you are okay with the toxic living lie.

Instead of making these 3 toxic errors, spend your time on the only thing that matters. YOU!

Why do You need TO SPEND QUALITY TIME ON YOU? Remember the case study I shared with you last week? Americans spend so much time serving the needs of others, seeking validation, acceptance, and approval in such a way we've lost sight of our dreams and passions. So much so, that we're lost and confused about the meaning and purpose of our lives. Not to mention, with everything that comes streaming into our devices, we barely look up anymore, and our attention spans have gotten so short we can hardly remember our dreams, visions, and aspirations.

If you click on the image below, you'll see the case study from which I used to write last week's email. A majority of Americans just aren't happy. And we've all been taught to avoid feeling it or thinking about it. 

So, yes if you want to generate a life of joy and abundance. You will have to decide where to begin which is why YOU need quality time with YOU. By the time I turned 45, I had thoroughly completed my life evaluation. It wasn't hard because everything in it had been toxic for some time. But, I had been training myself to become aware of it and what I'd like to change it to instead.

I call it the Freedom and Love Formula.

I was focused and dedicated to listening to my thoughts and feelings. I challenged each of them (and I still do) to figure out where I am misaligned with what I truly desire and deserve so I can manifest what I intend to create for my life. 

The second step to ending toxic living is this Formula. Here's the essence of how it works. You drill down to the 7th Level. I'll share more with you about the tools you need to unearth this secret. 

Here's How You Target Toxic Living.

I call it "The Drill-Down." This step helps you to break up with your dilemma of change. Try it. Imagine you start thinking, "Why haven't I still met my person? Is something wrong with me?'

Why do I believe this? Answer: Because no one gets me. I love too hard.

Is this my truth or someone else's? Answer: I don't know; it just seems like that.

Do I accept this as my truth? Answer: I don't want to, but none of my relationships have worked out.

Is this belief keeping me safe or are they hurting me more than helping? Answer: It hurts.

What part of you is stuck in this belief? Answer: I don't feel worthy of being loved.

Eureka! You get the idea.

Drilling down to your "Secret 7" allows you to gain access to your most profound and most powerful truth. And your truth initiates the activation of your intentions into a manifestation process more potent than wishful thinking. 

The problem is that we need to take time with ourselves and go through deeper and have the tools to overcome our fear. So, it leaves us in great despair and anxiety about tomorrow's outcomes.

Of course, there is more to ending toxic living than just this one secret. Heck, I've barely scratched the surface of how the 7th Level Drill Down works with you. I'll share the tools for this strategy because there are still other steps in the FL30x Formula. 

Once you've used the FL30x Secret #1: The 7-Level Drill-Down, you'll most likely come up with one or more of your deepest beliefs, feelings, or an experience blocking you from healing that area of your life. So, you will have other concerns or questions like:

1. How do I actually make changes in my life? 2. I'm not ready to let of my friends or relationship, so what do I do? 3. How do I manifest something new?

If you want answers to these questions and are ready to be taken by the hand and shown the exact process, I can help.

I've just put the finishing touches on a brand-new course that will walk you through a proven step-by-step formula for ending toxic living so that you can get $100 back for every $50 you spend on your ads.

It's called END TOXIC LIVING.

It will be available to purchase tomorrow, Saturday, December 10th, at 5:00 pm MST.

I'll be sending you all the details in the morning.

Keep an eye out for that email...

See you tomorrow.

Demi

PS. Remember to click the link to learn more about the case study, I shared with you last week.