Problem #1: Focusing all your time and energy on people, places and things that kept you stuck in toxic roles 

Unless you love yourself, know who you are, and what you deserve. You will continue living with toxic habits. 

Seeking the validation of others

Living by their expectations

Compromising your values and virtues to please others

Allowing yourself to be projected on through their gaslighting and manipulations.

Fatal Error #2: Neglecting your truth, betraying yourself, and accepting less than you are worth hurts.

When your Heart and Mind are not communicating within you, you will do things or make choices that only harm you.

Internalizing (your thoughts and true feeling) is continuing the dialog, which causes further self-doubt and deepens the pain.

Denying your truth and worth makes it seem more challenging to reach for actual change.

The Big Lie #3: Pretending you are okay with the toxic living lie.

Habits and behaviors seemingly make us "feel" okay for the moment, only serve to undermine our truth, voice, and finding our value. 

Treating ourselves with harm or masking the fear and pain makes the reality of toxic living more real. 

Denying our toxic life forces us to believe that nothing will change, and that there's no other way to live.

And my list goes on...

Is living a toxic life really what you want?

Are you willing to live the rest of your life in a world where everything around you is filled with negative toxic energy as I did? 

Are there areas in your life where you are consistently sabotaging your own happiness?

You don't have to repeat the mistakes I made.

To ensure you never live this way again, I have shared my 3 Toxic Living Habits you should NEVER do in your relationships, friendships, and career.

So, what should you do instead to end your toxic life?

Be willing and ready to make new and explicit choices about what you deserve and desire for your life, then take a stand and never return to those choices, behaviors, or actions again.

Determine where your strengths are and nurture them and yourself. Develop your voice, inner vision, self-confidence, and self-trust.

If you're like me, you may not know what unconditional love looks like or feels like if you've always accepted a toxic version of it. 

I decided to allow my toxic life to teach me how to identify with my innate strengths, gifts, talents, abilities, and skills. My friends and family always told me what was best for me and how I deserved more and better from relationships, jobs, and life. Even though they thought they were tearing me down by constantly pointing out my failures and shortcomings. But, I chose the make them my mentors.

I studied their long lists of things to improve about myself and my life as they judged me and took their best shots. One day, I finally decided to believe them and took swift, decisive action that shook the world. Because I deserved more, and I was worth my weight in Rhodium, and I wanted to own it within myself. 

I never wanted to live inauthentic to myself again!

So, I walked away from it all, leaving my career, my family, and friends behind to relocate to the other side of the country with a newborn baby!

I had nothing to lose. 

It sounds crazy, but that's what I did. 

I felt free. In control. Confident. At peace. Empowered. Inspired. And that was 10 years ago, as October 2022

So, if you want to put an end to toxic living too. You can determine where you are seeking approval and validation from others? Where are you holding on to toxic living?

When I reclaimed my choice, worth and began loving myself, life solutions and opportunities naturally opened up. I was able to move forward with momentum.

Putting an end to toxic living, meant I didn't have to buy into or accept what others thought about me. 

I fell in love with my intuitive nature.

I removed the toxic wall standing between pain and pleasure, making it possible to embody my soul's purpose and calling.

I became a healthier person.

I am a loving and patient mom.

My self-confidence and self-imagine attracted relationships.

By ending toxic living, I could set healthy boundaries with my behaviors.

In the coming days, I will demonstrate how to transform your life with peace, happiness, joy, love, and abundance by eradicating toxicity and negativity. And could fill you in on how it impacted my purpose, activated my life path, and ignited my creativity and passions?

We'll chat tomorrow! 😍

Demi

Namaste

#iamnotbroken #endtoxicliving

P.S. Hit reply to this email and let me know if you've ever made the 3 fatal mistakes above or share your experiences with toxic living.

I'd love to hear about your experience.