There is knowledge within you; knowledge that your inner voice has been whispering to you for a while. This knowledge is the pathway to creating a life you will love.
If you have bottled this up within you, ignored it in some way, or tried to push it aside as you place others' needs first now is the time to find a way to express your needs and lead the way for more Hygge in your life.
Years ago, I found myself drowning and needed to lead myself out of the deep end. I finally spoke up one evening after a health scare (I recommend not waiting for that kind of wake-up call!).
I simply looked at my family and said I need to let go and accept help. I need to put myself on the list in small ways, and this may require "mommy time-outs" so I can be the mom I wanted to be. It also may require them to pitch in and sometimes take over tasks that I had tried to control myself.
These small changes allowed me to improve my health. It allowed me time and the space the reflect on my day. It also led me to feel confident to ask for family zoom calls, years later when the two oldest had moved away.
What will you express so that you may be the leader you need for your life?
Until next time, see you in the Simply Hygge Facebook group!
Loads of Love, |