Subject: How to cut the nagging and increase joy in your home

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How to cut the nagging and increase joy in your home

by Wendy Young

Don’t you just hate being the nag to your children? Always prodding them to get their work done. Do their chores. Do this, do that…?

There were certainly seasons in our homeschooling journey where I felt that this was my lot, until I stopped myself in my tracks and assessed what was really going on. I realised that for some of my children, I was asking too much too soon, for others, they needed more parental training and for another the problem was a maths programme that was simply not working.

With some minor tweaks here and there with curriculum choice and some intense periods of character training, things improved and I found that my children were tripping along happily again.

When I do consultations with parents whose children are very resistant to learning, I often find they are using formal, boxed, school-at-home curriculum. I determined over the years that more often than not, the difference between a child who is involved in their own education and one who has to be urged along is often a product of curriculum choice.

Consider this:


“To introduce children to literature is to install them in a very rich and glorious kingdom, to bring a continual holiday to their doors, to lay before them a feast exquisitely served. But they must learn to know literature by being familiar with it from the very first. A child’s intercourse must always be with good books, the best that we can find”. 

~ Charlotte Mason

I have never met any child who says they do not like stories. Of course there are some who jiggle and squiggle all through reading time, but whether they are hanging upside down on a couch, playing with Lego on the floor or sitting still next to you with a snack, every kid likes being read to.

Imagine an educational journey where the bulk of it is reading and discussion, time spent in nature, creating hands on projects and going on outings? Throw in a little Maths and writing daily and you’re good to go. Does this sound too simple?

Compared to 7 or 9 subjects that most boxed curricula offer, where your children could be sitting looking at textbooks for up to 5 hours a day, I suppose it would seem too simple to follow Charlotte Mason’s delightful way of learning.

How do you know if your children are struggling with study fatigue?


1. They are not excited about learning
2. They make excuses to get out of doing work
3. They exhibit “bad” attitudes when you ask them to do something
4. They see learning as a chore
5. You are always nagging them to get their work done.


If you find yourself facing any of these situations, may I encourage you to seriously consider a change in home education methodology and curriculum? 

The end of the year is nearly here, it is time to assess what worked and what didn’t this year.


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 Be brave and chuck out the tedious boring textbooks and embrace the “very rich and glorious kingdom” of learning through literature.




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