Hey,

Have you ever had difficult times in your life?  You too?!?

Sometimes I feel like I am constantly fighting troubles, just like I am sitting in a pot of hot water.

There were times that it feel like I would never get out of the hot water…

Here is a little story for you to understand how to look at your own pot of “hot water”.

Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it.

She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.

Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot and ground coffee beans in the third pot. He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter.

The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing. After twenty minutes he turned off the burners.

He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup. 

Turning to her, he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?”

“Potatoes, eggs and coffee,” she hastily replied.

“Look closer and touch the potatoes.”  the father said.

She did and noted that they were soft.

He then asked her to take an egg and break it.

After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.

“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.

He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity-the boiling water.

However, each one reacted differently.

The potato went in strong, hard and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak.

The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water.

Then the inside of the egg became hard.

However, the ground coffee beans were unique.

After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.

“Which one are you?” he asked his daughter.

Moral of the story: 

In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is how you choose to react to it and what you make out of it.

Life is all about leaning, adopting and converting all the struggles that we experience into something positive.

So…  Which one are you when things get difficult? 

How do you react?

Are you the potato, the egg or the coffee beans?

I hope you are more like the coffee beans…  They take the difficult situation (“hot water”) and make it something great.

If you are struggling and want the opportunity to discover how to take your indecisions and make positive change in your life, watch this now and see if you can relate. 

It just may make a difference in you life.

Don’t wait!

Don’t put things off like you have in the past.

You are worth the time to watch this!

Here’s to you making “coffee” in you pot!

- Duane Eberhard