It's no secret that personal development is a massive part of my life.
Discovering the beliefs and values that controlled my life was like inspecting my brain under a microscope.
But it's not just me.
We all have beliefs and values that control our lives.
They control us in everything:
Our business
Our relationships
Our health
Our career
... EVERYTHING.
Heck - the beliefs we hold are rarely a result of our own decisions.
Our beliefs are typically developed in our childhood, and we hold onto them forever.
The reason I say this is because no matter where I go, I hear one belief time and time again.
It's "I'm not good enough".
"I'm not good enough to... be financially free"
"I'm not good enough to... be fit and strong"
But here's the thing:
These beliefs are only true if you believe them.
Read that again. It'll take a few times to actually process it.
Believing something is true doesn't actually make it true. You see, the only reason a lot of people think they're not good enough is because they're comparing themselves to other people.
Remember, it doesn't matter where other people are in their life.
The ONLY person you should be comparing yourself to... is YOU!
Are you better than you were yesterday?
Are you better than you were last week?
Are you better than you were last year?
Those are the questions you should be asking yourself... not a bunch of negative questions that elicit a sub-conscious negative response.
When you stop comparing yourself to others... you gain more confidence, feel happier and achieve more.
It gives you the mental space you need in order to grow and to achieve all the things you want to achieve.
Think about it.
Why do most people fail at network marketing?
Is it because they don't have what it takes? Of course not.
Most of the time, it's because they compare themselves to others and get frustrated when they can't replicate the exact same results.
(Even though they've only been in the game for 1 year and the other person has 10 years of experience)
To really have this lesson hit home, I'll leave you with one final thing:
Is where you are right now where you want to be?
Chat soon,
Ron & Carole
