Subject: When is it Time for NEW Stuff? 🎁 December - Forge Newsletter

Free NEW STUFF GUIDE! Helping our hearts sift through the ‘stuff’ question.
 
 

Free New Stuff Guide!

 
 

Helping our hearts sift

through the ‘stuff’ question.

 

First off: Having stuff is good. Having stuff isn’t bad. In the first 6 days of God’s creation, He made a lot of good, GOOD stuff. Things that help us accomplish our God-given missions are good! Food is a gift to the hungry. Space, provisions, and power to do good is GOOD STUFF! <- Now that we know this, let’s ask a few defining questions about stuff:

- Could we be filling a hole in our hearts with styrofoam when we reach for more stuff? Does it really help us to dump another pastry or coffee or sandwich into our tummy when the internal spiritual tank’s empty?

  • Dr’s say we’re often thirsty (not hungry) when we snack. Could our desire for more stuff sometimes be a bait & switch? Could our buying habits be connected to a hole in the soul? If so, then filling spiritual emptiness with physical stuff would be a massive miss. If we misdiagnose this problem, we only become more desperate when we go for more stuff that won’t satisfy.

- Got space for that thing? Physically, calendar/time-wise, storage-wise, heart-wise? Accommodating incoming stuff almost always demands more of a limited resource – that goes back to US, the men who most likely manage that space – and the stuff.

- A Pace of Grace: It’s good to be patient before acquiring more stuff. Why not let a potential purchase rest on our hearts before committing to it? Ask those you trust about their experiences with a similar investment. What would they do it differently? Ask for some pros and cons.

  • Impulse buying leaves a bigger hole of disappointment than we care to admit.

- Compare and contrast good purchases: Where have we said, “I wish I’d made that purchase a long time ago!”? Or, “How’d we ever got along without this?” What are the good, teachable moments which we could find inside our GOOD purchases?

  •  After exploring good news, take the risk of comparing and contrasting a few BAD purchases. What can we discover there?

  • What cycles or preconditions surround those good/bad purchases?

    • Loneliness?

    • Patience?

    • Focusing on the joy of others?

    • Centeredness on selflessness and giving?

- Has there been a noticeable need for months? Years? Have you noticed a longing for it? Will it help/bless others with health, life, or fulfillment? Does it further a pure mission?

  • Some common post-purchase comments:

    • I wish I would have purchased new instead of used.

    • I didn’t realize all the management that ____ would demand of me.

    • There was a better deal / newer version right around the corner?

    • Wish I would have read the reviews first.

    • And the TOP HIT: “I should have listened to my wife!” (Anything behind this? =)

Jesus said we’d receive when we asked, sought, and knocked (Matt 7). He built us to have needs – and for those needs to be satisfied IN HIM. God challenges us to go for the good stuff and not be lulled by unsatisfying stuff. One GOOD thing we can do for our souls right now: Put this reading aside for a few and soak in the first verses of Isaiah 55 in relation to ‘stuff choices.’

 

This we need in our knower:

Things will never satisfy. Many things promise but don’t deliver. I thought travel would deliver more. What I discovered was this: Travel highlighted the internal condition. Travel, like trials, causes whatever’s inside - good and bad things - to come to the surface. Travel offered space for joy to bubble up in new and exciting dimensions. Also, incomplete and frustrated spaces inside me were also churned up by travel.


Similarly, good stuff can propel us toward a deeper Why. Bad acquisitions, however, disappoint, deflate, and highlight significant emptiness.

 

It’s that way with marriage, money, experience, influence, etc… ‘Benefits’ are good in their own right. However, onboarding them will expose our cracks. Adding rooms to a house that isn’t built on the rock just hastens the fall of that house. Our remedy? -- Shift all our efforts to building our lives on the Rock Himself – even when it comes to our stuff.

 
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