"Most people who are crying are total frauds..."
That's what I told Blair many years ago.
Then I went on to explain...
Just look around...high schoolers and even grown ass men crying after losing...whether it's losing a job, a friend or a spouse."
Most of these cry babies are total frauds.
Watch them inside the training room.
Watch them when there's no lights shining down.
Watch them when they think nobody is looking.
The crying is all a lie. It's an act.
I've seen it a thousand times...
A half ass work effort turns into a devastating loss.
Then the tears flow.
A man is only as good as his work ethic and his word.
If your work ethic is trash, your performance is trash. You're not allowed to cry because it's not authentic!
Want to cry?
Earn it.
...work yourself so hard at practice that you cry from sheer exhaustion and defeat by your training partners...
...work so hard at making weight that you cry yourself to sleep from starvation and dehydration.
...do so many pull-ups at 5am that you cry from your grip giving out.
See, it's OK to cry only when you've put in the work.
If you happen to lose, you look your opponents in the eye and give them a massive congrats...'cause you know they earned it.
Anything outside of that is a lie.
...it's a fraud.
...it's an act.
You're a fake.
Quit.
Join yoga and start going to coffee socials.
Here's Blair last Saturday after losing in the finals at a local jiu-jitsu tournament, his little brother looking up proudly...
When mom asked us in a group text, "how did the finals go?"
I responded, "It was ugly. He got rag-dolled and fortunately survived without injury..."
Blair corrected me, "I ran out of technique."
Back to the lesson of stop crying, he knew he put in the work. So with that, he congratulated his opponent and collected his silver medal to show little brother.
This is the same lesson for losing weight, ditching meds, getting a workout...stop crying about not getting the results and put the F@#CKING WORK IN!!!!!!!
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