September 10, 2024 *Tuesday* Asymmetrical Commitment in Romantic Relationships
One of the greatest insights on lopsided commitment came from sociologist Willard Waller in 1936, when he described the “principle of least interest,” defined in this way: "That person is able to dictate the conditions of association whose interest in the continuation of the affair is least.’’
Analogously, the person who is most committed has the least power in a relationship.
There is a growing and robust literature on asymmetrical commitment, with studies showing that it is associated not only with poor relationship dynamics but also specific personal characteristics such as attachment difficulties.
Dr. Scott Stanley and Dr. Galena Rhoades have published numerous papers on this topic. In this talk, they will describe what’s up with lopsided love. |