Are you asking empowering questions?  The choices you make today are creating your tomorrow, your future.  So it’s important to understand how to self-correct if you desire a different outcome.  This won’t happen once in a while, but happens all day long with the decisions and circumstances of your life.  When the car won’t start, the cable goes out or something breaks.  The realities of life.  Become aware of how you respond or react to situations with your questions.