This month we're talking about how to not get stuck when life feels especially difficult so that you can create the life you want and finish the year strong. So far we've talked about: But what if, when trying to determine what you want, those three dreaded words keep popping into your head. . . I don't know?
That's exactly where I was post-cancer. I wanted more purpose and meaning (and knew everything I didn't want - which included being a lawyer). Yet I didn't know specifically what I did want.
As I went through my journey, here's what I learned. . .
Purpose isn't what you think.
It's not something you have to search for. Nor is it about giving up your worldly possessions and saving the world.
Purpose is created from within. It's about being content in who you are and where you're going, given your current circumstances.
That's important because it's impossible for your brain to contemplate your path forward (or even your next step) without getting to that place.
But once you get there, you'll be able to create your new path forward.
Friend, it's time to get back to the basics of being YOU.
It's easy to get so caught up in the busyness of work and life that you become a bit disconnected from what brings you meaning and is most important to you.
Here's how to course correct: - Be useful. Be intentional about how you use your strengths and skills in service to others (at home, at work, and within your community) so that you can start to see the impact you already make + what more you can do.
- Strengthen your relationships and prioritize community. Human beings have a primal need to belong. And that only gets satisfied through strong relationships and connections (both individually and through a larger community you care about).
- Reconnect to your values. Aligning your life around your values brings purpose. And your values are the best guides for creating your path forward. Get clarity around your core personal values + your next steps forward with my free Values Assessment.
Any one of these things will bring more meaning to your life. All three together are life-changing.
You'll feel more content, will trust your decisions and will start to see your next steps forward to creating the path you want.
Before you go, hit reply and tell me which of these three areas you're committing to take action in (and how). I read every email, would love to celebrate with you and promise to get back with tips.
XO,
Heather
P.S. When you're ready, here's how I can help you take the next step to creating your path forward: |
