Subject: #1 tip for a more fulfilling, happier life

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Today, I was going to give you a few quick pointers for how to supersize your support network (based on last week's email).

But that's been thrown out the window because. . . yesterday I had a meltdown of epic proportions.  My 9 year-old messed up (on a pretty big scale).  And then I messed up even more (I lost it).

Why am I telling you this personal (and extremely embarrassing) detail about my life?  Two reasons:

#1: No one is as put together or confident as they appear.

For much of my life (even before I became a coach), people have told me how put together I am, and how that's simultaneously inspiring and depressing.  Honestly, I've never understood why people perceive me this way.

I sometimes fall prey to feeling sorry for myself, feel stressed over little things, and let my emotions get the best of me.

Here's the thing: there's a LOT that goes on inside of us.  Sometimes that comes out (but often it doesn't).  No one is as put together as they seem.

The good news is that no one knows what you're thinking or feeling on the inside either (and so you likely appear more confident than you feel).

#2: Failure is part of life (and being human).

After regaining my composure and apologizing to my son yesterday, it hit me...

The reason why so many people view me as "put together" isn't because I actually have it together.  It's because I've accepted that I'll fail, but can learn from those failures.

#1 for a Happy, Fulfilling Life

My #1 tip for a happier, more fulfilling life is to cultivate a growth-oriented mindset that accepts failure as part of growth.

Your mentality is the KEY to feeling content with your life and your decisions, even when:
  • life gets messy;
  • you're working hard to change your life; and
  • you've messed up.
Adopting (and continuing to cultivate) this mentality has made me more willing to put myself out there (and take action), not regret my decisions, and regroup when I've messed up.

It even helps me apologize to my 9-year old when warranted and then move on (so that I don't wallow in guilt for having messed up).

What you probably don't realize is that this is 100% about self-care.  Your well being depends on having the right mentality.  

Moreover, if you don't accept this mentality, then you'll never be able to truly prioritize your own well being.  They go hand in hand.

My question for you is... what are you going to do to cultivate (or continue cultivating) the right mentality?

If you're ready to prioritize it (and yourself), then keep reading...


Introducing the Effortless Self-Care Mastermind, a 3-month mastermind experience designed to help you cultivate the right mindset and make self-care almost effortless.

If you're not familiar with masterminds, they're an amazing combo of expert advice, mentoring, peer support, and positive disruption.

Here's what you need to know...

#1: The key to success - at anything - is to do what works consistently 

When it comes to your wellness, it's about developing and continuing to cultivate the right mindset (one that empowers you to prioritize self-care and makes it feel effortless).

#2: Knowledge isn't the problem.  

You're smart - and therefore (mostly) know what to do.  It's just that it's easy to get distracted by life's busy-ness and the negativity bias that you're hard-wired for.

#3: Consistency is much easier with the right support, guidance, and accountability.

People who create fulfilling work, make a BIG impact, and are actually happy in life understand they can’t do it all, need help, and get it.They surround themselves with the right people to help them.

And that’s EXACTLY what you'll get in the Effortless Self-Care Mastermind.  
You'll receive expert guidance from me, support from people who understand your struggles, and accountability to help you cultivate the right mentality and prioritize your own well being.  

Here are the specifics:
  • 1:1 coaching call to set your goals for the Mastermind and jump-start your success.
  • 6 group mastermind sessions (over a 3-month period) with a group hand-picked to support your growth and development.
  • BONUS: 3 individual monthly laser coaching calls with me to work through any sticking points you run into.  These are at your option and convenience.
Spaces are limited and you MUST APPLY to get in.

High-level masterminds are expensive. Most start at a minimum of $3,000 for a 6-month minimum commitment.

But for my inaugural offering, I'm offering it for an investment of only $885 (that's just $295/month).

If you show up to our meetings, do the work and give all you got, you will see amazing results.

I am blunt and expect you to come prepared. I can be sweet as pie but tough as nails. But here's the thing: I'm invested in your success.

That’s why my clients get results. Results such as:

Amy, a marketing director who came to me feeling guilty any time she tried to prioritize self-care and was so stressed that her hair was falling out.  She's now prioritizing self-care, having lots more fun, and feels confident and in control of her life.

Somer, an attorney who came to me questioning whether she was on the right career path. Although she loved her work, she struggled with guilt over not being with her family enough. Interestingly, her answer wasn't to leave her career or employer.  Instead, she learned how to prioritize the things most important to her and let go of the rest (and she's having more success at work while putting in less hours).

Kathryn, an attorney who came to me feeling directionless, with little motivation (which worried her since her career had up until then been meaningful to her). While working together, she regained her passion for her career - while taking a big step up and also creating more time for personal priorities.

My clients are amazing people.

They achieved their goals and created a balanced, more fulfilling life because they came prepared to work and refused to give up on themselves. And the payoff has been so sweet. They're not just successful on paper, but in life.

There’s no sales page for this Mastermind. There is nothing more to share than what is here.

This isn't the right fit for everyone. But it is if you know in your core you need to step up your game and start creating the life and career you want.

I'm accepting applications only until October 4, 2019.

Fill out your application and schedule a time for us to chat here:



And if a Mastermind isn't your thing, no worries.  Just do whatever you need to cultivate the right mentality.

Because you deserve to feel content, happy, and fulfilled.

XO,

P.S.  The application doesn't obligate you for anything. But it will allow you to explore something that might just be life-changing!
About Heather

I’m a certified coach and recovering attorney who works with smart, savvy professionals committed to their success and happiness.

Step-by-step, I help you achieve a balanced lifestyle doing work you love without sacrificing or settling.
Moulder Consulting Services, Inc., 11816 Inwood Rd #3153, Dallas, TX 75244, United States
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