Several years ago, I made the life decision to only do things that bring me joy. This is not a “Pollyanna” approach to life. Rather I choose to take responsibility for my experiences. Sometimes this means releasing situations and people that do not bring me joy. It also means shifting my outlook and attitude.
For example, after 38 years as an IT professional, I was no longer enamored with the excitement of quickly changing technology. I found my joy in helping people. I wasn’t ready to retire and needed the income while I launched ADVWoman. I mindfully shifted my attitude from the depressing “I work on computers,” to uplifting “I help people by working with technology.” Believe it or not, this shift allowed me to happily serve my IT clients for three additional years while transitioning to my passion of empowering women through off road motorcycling.
I have found tremendous joy in 2021 fulfilling multiple dreams- collaborating with Shalmarie Wilson of SheADV, the exceptional MotoDiscovery team, and incomparable WomenRidersNow team. Leading two Women’s Colorado Backcountry Training Tours and producing “SeeME Soar Hear Me Roar” video series sponsored by Proctor and Gamble’s SeeME Beauty has been a massive highlight in my career. Each of the ordinary women living extraordinary lives on these tours deeply touch my heart and soul. I found so much satisfaction and delight working with Barak Naggan who’s technical and creative genius were key to this extraordinary work.
My euphoric wave came crashing down in August when I was hit by a car. A young driver turned left directly in front of me, I hit the brakes hard and fast but didn’t stand a chance. I’ve spent most of the past four months in a wheelchair recovering from multiple surgeries to my lower leg. It has been a frightening, painful experience. I have “holed up” while I processed grief, anger, and pain. It was essential for me to fully feel my suffering. It was also essential for me to move through it focusing on all the good I continue to receive despite this accident.
It may be surprising that I have found peace and joy in the midst of this catastrophic event. My connections with Spirit, family, pets, and finding joy in the simple act of walking on my own two feet (Woot! Woot!) sustain me. I am profoundly grateful to be alive. I look forward to riding again next year!
Regardless of what you are experiencing this holiday season, be it uncomfortable or enjoyable, my wish is you honor your feelings and find your way to peace and joy. Just as each individual piece of colored glass is essential to a stained-glass window, you are essential in the fabric and beauty of life. I am honored to share this tapestry with you.
With love, light, peace and joy,,
Pat Jacques
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