Is he the one? Read on to find out...✨
I am a Love Whisperer. I get a lot of questions about soul mates and twin flames. It's a difficult topic.
Are there many men out there that are potential soul mates?
Is there only one?
What makes a soul-mate a soul-mate?
How to know if he's yours?
Is he a kindred spirit? Your twin Flame? What even is a twin flame?
I believe love is everything and everywhere, but it is born within us…not "out-there." Why then do we have the need to distinguish one type of love from another, which one is better, enough or not enough? And why to we search outside ourselves for the greener grass when it is growing right inside of us the whole time?
Because we do. It is human nature. And, in order to grow and evolve, we like to label what we feel and experience to help us to better understand what we're going through.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SOULMATES, TWIN FLAMES AND KINDRED SPIRITS.
Soulmates, twin flames and kindred spirits are attributes that are used to describe relationships that touch our souls and change our lives in a deep way.
KINDRED SPIRITS
Kindred spirits are individuals that resonate at many of the same energetic frequencies as we do. As everything in life is composed of energy, we often feel attracted to some people and repelled by others.
Have you ever spoken to a person who just seems to "vibe" or "click" with you? That person was probably a kindred spirit vibrating at the same or similar energetic level as you.
Physically, a kindred spirit could be anything: a close friend, a confidant, a family member, a teacher, a lover or a pet.
Often kindred spirits share the same personality types as us, as well as similar tastes, interests and passions. While not all kindred spirit connections are necessarily deep and soulful, some can be.
SOULMATES
Soulmates are people in our lives who we connect with on a deep level.
As the name implies, soulmates are primarily friends of the soul. If you have found your soulmate they will likely be the best, and truest friend, you will ever have. You'll be able to share everything with your soulmate, from your wildest dreams, to your most shameful secrets. Nothing is off limits.
It is possible for soulmates to be platonic, romantic and/or sexual in nature. You can also have multiple soulmates in one lifetime, hence the many love triangles we see and experience.
TWIN FLAMES
Many women have asked me whether it's possible to have more than one Twin Flame. It could be possible, but from all of the research I have done, I doubt it. As the word "twin" implies, we only have one twin flame. Sometimes we don't even meet our twin flame in our lifetimes, but we have always been connected to them on a deep level.
Many of my clients ask me about twin flames, mistakenly thinking that the twin, if found is like the ultimate soulmate.
It can be, but often the twin flame relationship is not an easy one. Twin flames are our mirrors. They reflect back to us not just every positive and strength, but the worst insecurity, weakness, shadow, stranger and qualities in ourselves we might not want to face.
The twin flame relationship can help us become the best version of ourselves possible. At first, the twin flame relationships can be intense and tumultuous. This can continue for many years. But once both partners let go of the blocks that keep them stuck, unconditional love can finally be obtained.
Our twins reflect the disowned parts of ourselves; they are the yins to our yangs, the suns to our moons, and the light to our darkness. They propel us into shadow work, deep self-discovery and the fulfillment of our potential.
Your twin flame could be your greatest dream or your worst nightmare (or both). They will test you, provoke you and love you fiercely all at once.
This can be really confusing when we are also dealing with the idea of toxic relationships, difficult men and clueless men. Could a potentially toxic or difficult relationship really be our twin flame in disguise? Are kindred spirits meant to be life partners? Is he your soul mate?
Just because you think a man is your soul mate or twin flame, doesn't mean he is.
If there is any kind of abuse, physical, mental or emotional, he is not your soul mate or twin flame.
The twin flame or soulmate relationship, although often challenging, tends to nurture you emotionally and physically and helps you be a better, stronger person.
The toxic relationship is never good. This relationship harms you emotionally and physically. It is a one-sided affiliation in which you are gaining nothing. It is an imaginary relationship. It can feel so real, but it isn't.
I can help you answer these questions and more to help you achieve the love and relationship you want and deserve even if it doesn't look that way right now. Join me & let's get started below.
Love in Whispers,
Coach Katelyn |
