This month, our character focus is Dependability. The operational definition of dependability is “fulfilling what I consented to do even if it means unexpected sacrifice.”

Dependability comes from two Latin words: de meaning “down” or “from” and pendere, “to hang.” Imagine a mountain climber going up a steep rockface. If his foot slips, he would literally be hanging in the air! He is dependant upon a sturdy rope and the strong anchor secured to the mountain. In the same way, can others “hang” their trust on what you say you will do? Can they secure their plans on your word, confident that you will fulfill your commitments?

The opposite of dependability is inconsistency. When someone is inconsistent, he lets others down. People are disappointed, projects aren’t completed, and trust is broken.

Do you honor your commitments consistently or only occasionally? If you are following through only for your own gain, you will likely compromise when you are no longer benefited. However, when you have God’s love for others and seek their benefit first, you will not want to disappoint them.

Here are some free resources to help your family study dependability this month.