This month, our character focus is Forgiveness. The operational definition of forgiveness is “clearing the record of those who have wronged me and allowing God to love them through me.”

In a world of sin and conflict, offenses are inevitable. One of the keys God gives for unity and healing is forgiveness. Forgiveness does not mean we ignore offenders’ sins or waive the consequences; however, it does mean that we make a deliberate decision to let go of any bitter or vengeful feelings toward those who have wronged us. Whether or not someone deserves it, or whether or not they repent, we choose to forgive them, canceling their debt. When we no longer hold sin against our offenders, we are free to fully love those who have hurt us.

Think of God’s incredible forgiveness! Despite our continual sinning against Him, God mercifully sent His own Son Jesus to suffer and die, taking upon Himself the punishment for our sin. In Colossians 2:13–14, we read that He forgave all our trespasses, “blotting out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us . . . and took it out of the way, nailing it to his cross.” God loved us and wanted a restored relationship with us! We did not ask for it. We did nothing to deserve it. As we realize the magnitude of our sin against God, we will better appreciate the greatness of His forgiveness toward us.

Here are some free resources to help your family study forgiveness this month.