This month, our character focus is Deference. The operational definition of deference is “limiting my freedom in order not to offend the tastes of those whom God has called me to serve.”

A person’s preferences may or may not seem important to you; however, by laying aside what you think is best and honoring their choice or desire, you are demonstrating deference. Deference communicates that you prefer others above yourself and want to be a blessing to them. “Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another” (Romans 12:10).

God has made each person are different, with unique tastes, preferences, and ideas. But through His grace, you can be empowered to lay aside your comforts, desires, and freedoms so that you can show His love to others.

Here are some free resources to help your family study deference this month.