Every day I get emails from people struggling to save their relationship who are looking in the mirror and wondering:

Did I do the right thing?

Did I screw up?

Is it even POSSIBLE to save it?

Is it really over?

When you’re looking at the ruins of a failed relationship it’s easy to point fingers but harder to figure out an actual solution.

And... when it comes to saving your relationship, you have serious competition.

You have your loved one’s friends and family who may or may not support your past relationship.

And then there’s your loved one’s negativity about whether your relationship could ever work out.

What about that potential rebound relationship your ex is thinking about?

And.. 

Your own skepticism and pessimism that trying to save the relationship will even work.

That last one is the hardest competition of all.

Because it’s not usually your ex who decides it’s over. 

Even if they were the one who pulled the plug in the first place.

It’s you.

And giving up is totally understandable and even a great idea sometimes. I’ve done it myself once in a while.

But I’ve noticed that I’ve never been angrier at myself then when I gave up on a dream I really cared about without trying everything.

Because then I could look at myself in the mirror in the morning and know for certain that I did everything I could.

What about you?

Frankly, some relationships are total hot garbage and not at all worth saving. Abuse comes to mind.

If that’s you--- run far and fast. You shouldn’t save it and I’d be sad if you tried.

But what if you just… know it’s supposed to work out?

What if you just KNOW it is not over?

I know what that feels like because it happened to me. After my divorce I fell in love with someone who was everything I ever wanted.

Then he got depressed (brutal, clinical, “we’re afraid for your life” depression) and dumped me.

And we didn’t talk for 9 months until he called to apologize for everything.

It took another year for him to come back completely. He was hot and cold-- but not on me, on himself.

Things are good between us now. Just like I knew they would be.

So I know exactly what it means to have a crazy feeling that it will all work out.

What I’ve noticed after helping hundreds of people with their breakups is that the part where it STARTS to work again is the most crucial time.

That’s when people make mistakes and drive their ex further away.

That’s why you don’t want to do this alone. Getting help was one of the most important things I’ve ever done.

And that’s why I have a soft spot for people who want it to work out.

If you know it can work, consider getting coaching with me.

We’ll sort out what to do now, how to get yourself out of pain and how to treat your ex so they can’t wait to hear from you.

And, yes, I’m going to be 100% transparent here. 1:1 coaching with me is expensive and not for everyone.

But… how much is all this pain and upset really costing you in time and emotional resources alone?

Or what about the cost of avoiding your next great relationship because you’re afraid it will go sideways like this one?

Maybe you realize regrets are more expensive than anything you’ve ever bought.

Don’t you want the peace of mind from knowing you tried everything?

>> Get this solved.

Talk soon,

Elizabeth