Hi Friend,
Thanks for getting back to me to let me know you folks
weren't going to make it last night ... I appreciate that. It's too bad you couldn't get a sitter .... I wished you were there with us yesterday.
I'm certain you both would
have gotten value from the content.
Of course, I don't know your situation but what I DO know and spoke about last night at the event, is that 8 out of 10 couples are struggling with their communication ...
...and this is taking a HUGE toll on family life ... in all aspects. I also spoke about how when we are struggling in our marriage, the problem seems larger than life and can be all consuming ... ...especially with men.
You guys are all about fixing stuff ... making things work ...
... and when things aren't going well with your wife, you literally feel yourself going down at the knees and it has a BIG impact on your production and your career. I'm certain you know exactly what I'm taking about.
I once coached a fellow that was a salesman for a well known large Canadian company.
The guy was in a panic.
The president of his company called him on the carpet because he went from Western Canada's consistent top producer ... ... to the bottom of the rung in a matter of 3 months.
He was hard pressed to tell his boss his marriage was falling apart.
Marital breakdown brings it's own cost to business.
More time off work, increased physical illness due to stress, higher incidents of depression.
The bottom line is ... unhappily married employees decrease profitability.
The guy was really concerned for his future with this company given what was going on in his personal life.
Communication breakdown of course, has a big impact on women as well but it doesn't impact a woman in quite the same way that it impacts a man's production.
Another guy I coached, told me he couldn't even think straight when it was real bad at home.
He was a business owner and he told me how much it impacted his ability to run things.
Since the 80's there's been a lot of research in the area of marriage.
This research shows that couples are waiting 6 years longer than they should to get help.
After the main part of the training last night we told people about our "Between Men And Women" Couple's Communication Retreat that is happening April 27-28 in Canmore and then again May 24-25 in Calgary.
We offered a special bonus to anyone that registered between now and next week.
Let me know if you want to hear more about it and if it's something you're interested in registering for, I'll extend you the special deal.
We are only taking 7 couples in our April retreat and we have room for 2 more couples.
Let me know if you're interested ... want to see if it would be a good fit for you and your wife ...
... or if you have any other questions or concerns about it.
I'd be glad to have a conversation and talk to you about it ... of course, no obligation.
To Your Greatness!
Donna Couple's Love Coach www.BetweenMenAndWomen.com 403 455-9351
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