Hi Friend,
I just wanted to give you a quick heads up...Next week, I'll be in touch to give you the link to a complimentary (no charge) webinar I'll be offering about how to manage stress and keep your relationship strong in a COVID-19 environment. No strings, no sales, just something that I hope will help you navigate these challenging times.
Speaking of COVID-19...I don't know about you, but over the last few weeks, as COVID-19 has dominated people's lives, I've seen a growing awareness that we, as a society, need to do things differently if we are to prevent this sort of thing from happening again.
It makes sense right? If we want different results, we need to put in different actions. Doing what we've done in the past will simply lead to a repeat of what isn't working today. It's predictable.
The same is true for our relationships.
Albert Einstein said something to the effect that insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.
But isn't that what we do in relationship? Something happens. There's a fight. Eventually we might resolve the fight, but few people look deeply at the underlying cause and then make fundamental changes to avoid a repeat in the future. That's why the divorce rate is so high. That’s why we carry those ways of being from relationship to relationship. We resist change. Or, we simply don't know how to change, so we keep repeating the same actions and ways of being that don't serve us over the long term.
To get new results, you need to put in something new. You need to break up old habits of relating to make way for new habits that will get you where you want to be.
But what are the old habits that don't work? And more importantly, what are the new habits of relating that will move you forward?
Those are the questions we'll answer this weekend in the "Between Men and Women" Online Couples Communication Workshop.
If you’ve ever asked yourself any of the following questions, you’ll get answers this weekend:
- “Why does he always want to fix things when I just want him to listen?”
- “If this problem is really bothering her, why doesn’t she do something about it?”
- “What doesn’t she just tell me what she really wants?”
- “Why does he get to lounge around when he gets home while I’m doing all the work?”
- “Why, if I want something done right, do I have to do it myself?”
- “If she’s just going to ignore everything I say, what’s the point of saying anything?”
- “Do I have to listen to more complaining?”
- “Why doesn’t he ever say he loves me?”
- “Is nothing I do good enough for her?”
- “Why doesn’t he listen. Is he deaf?”
Jason and I don’t ask you to do anything that we haven’t done. We’ve both had to make changes over the years. If we didn’t, we may not still be together. When we change how we’re being or what we’re doing, we open the door for something new to show up. That’s where the opportunity is. That’s the gold at the end of the proverbial rainbow.
If you want to know more about what to expect from this weekend’s "Between Men and Women" Online Couples Communication Workshop, simply click here for all the details –
"Between Men and Women" - April 25-26, 2020
Or, if you are ready to register, or just have some questions, please don’t hesitate to call me at 403-455-9351, or simply reply to this email, and I’ll get back to you ASAP.
Thanks for taking the time to read this email. I hope to see you online this weekend.
To Your Greatness,
Donna Tosky
P.S. Getting something new out of your relationship means putting something new in. Over the past 15 years, we've seen the difference it can make when you understand who you and your partner are naturally as men and women. Join us online this weekend, April 25-26, and let the "Between Men and Women" Online Couples Communication Retreat be the new way of life that leads to new results that you'll love! Click here for more details. |
