Subject: Friend, I bet you didn't see this coming?

Hey Friend,

When we are struggling as
a couple, we usually don't
have any trouble pin pointing
our "issues" do we?

When discussing these 
"issues" have you noticed
how quickly the tables turn
so that before you know it,
it's clear to you that you've
just been flat out 
misunderstood?

Maybe as you're trying to
talk it out you start crying
and suddenly your partner
has just accused you of
manipulation when you
KNOW that manipulation 
was the last thing on your
mind!

Or how about this ... you
sense those familiar weird 
sensations in your body ... 
... the knot in your stomach
... or your face getting hot.

You just KNOW that if 
you don't leave the room 
you're apt to say something
stupid that you wont be able
to take back.

And when this happens,
your partner gets upset 
and tells you that you 
don't care!

You hate being told what
you feel or what you think
and it's downright insulting
when your partner believes
the worst about you, isn't 
it?

Why does your partner have
such negative thoughts about
you?

Did you know there is
an invisible dynamic
going on here that you
likely don't know anything 
about?

And if you're not careful
you can get consumed
by it.

What I'm referring to is
a psychological bias
called the "Fundamental 
Attribution Error".

When we aren't aware 
this is a bias that ALL
human beings are subject
to, we are puzzled why
our partners start making 
stuff up about us that
simply... is... not... true.


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HEY ... YOU'RE INVITED!

Do you live in the Calgary
area?

If so ... you're invited to a
special "No Charge"
educational event that
I'm hosting called:

"Discover the SIMPLE 
Method To Better
Communication So That
You and Your Spouse Feel
Your Best and Truly
Enjoy Each Other" 

Date:   Tuesday, Feb 5th
Time:  7pm - 9pm
Place: Lymph Balance Centre
           Unit 707, 12100 Macleod Tr.
           Calgary
Cost:   No Charge 
There will be a door prize draw!


To Your Greatness!

Donna Tosky
"Queen of Connection"
Couple's Love Coach
www.BetweenMenAndWomen.com







  





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