Does this ever happen to you?
You steadily pursue a woman, showing up for her week after week.
But you notice that her interest for you is neutral at best.
After you've put in quite a bit of time and effort, with very little give in return, you decide it's time to throw in the towel.
Finally admitting to yourself that she's just not that interested.
But as soon as you do this... as if by voodoo magic, she starts paying attention to you.
...And makes herself available to you, even pursuing you.
It's as if your lack of care and lack of interest is somehow attractive to her.
There are three reasons why your lack of care is attractive to the women you're dating.
Two of those reasons have something to do with what you're doing and can guide you to create consistent results with women.
One of the reasons is a big red flag that you should definitely pay attention to that may make you reconsider your advances.
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