They lose interest in the conversation.
Remember when you’re dating online, women have no idea who you are. They are quickly sorting through matches to see who makes them feel a spark.
You want to be that guy!
There are common mistakes guys make that get in the way of creating this spark with the woman they’re chatting with.
Here are four mistakes guys make when texting women online: - Sending her short responses that don’t give her any sense of your personality.
- Not asking her any interesting questions about her life.
- Sounding like a robot instead of writing like how you talk. I.e. You’re too stiff or formal online.
- Sending long blocks of text and responding to every point she makes.
All of these mistakes are easy to make. No one teaches a man how to text on online dating apps.
Now, that you know what they are you can be the man that captures her attention and makes her relieved that she's finally found a guy she's eager to talk to by following these tips...
Here’s what you want to do instead…
- Share your thoughts and opinions! If she asks you what shows you’re currently watching. Instead of saying, “The Sopranos”- Say this - “re-watching the sopranos I’m on season 1 episode 6 things are getting really heated”. This way she can ask, “oh yeah, what’s happening?” -- this builds her curiosity for you.
- Curiosity is key when chatting! Everyone wants to feel like the person they’re talking to is interested in them. Now, ask her questions to show that you're interested. One question I personally love is “what are you reading?”. I’m a bit of a nerd and I’m always reading something. It shows me that you’re interested in me and what I’m into.
- Women want to know that there’s a real person behind that photo. When you sound like a robot online you lose your warmth and humanness. So instead of telling her “hello” say “heya”. Instead of “I love Indian food” say “I’d kill for some lamb vindaloo right about now”. Infuse personality into your words and it will make her feel connected to you.
- Keep your texts to 3 to 4 lines max and comment on one thing at a time. This keeps the intrigue alive in the conversation and keeps her wanting to learn more about you.
That's it! Try those tips and let me know how it goes.
Did you know that...
Guiding you what to say every step of the way. AND in your voice(not mine).
From messaging online to getting her phone number to texting before your date.
Most importantly I'll teach you dating etiquette so that you know what to text and what not to text at each step of the dating process.
Then you can do that with every woman you date loooong after the program is complete.
with gratitude,
