| Hey Friend, its your coach, Katya!
Often guys come to me with specific questions like... 👇
If I'm dating multiple women when is the appropriate time to tell them? 🤷♂️
My client asked me this question the other day.
Now, I could give him an answer based on my own personal experience or the experience of other women.
And often I will share an anecdotal story to illustrate a point...
But the reality is that every person is different. 👩🎤👩🌾👸👩🎨
Every situation is unique.
People have different values.
Women respond in different ways.
...and most importantly...
What is YOUR internal guidance system telling you to do? 🌠
While initially having hard rules to follow might give you some sense of certainty... 📊
Eventually, you need to be able to make your own choices that support your values and add to your sense of self-trust in relationship.
You will need this ability to also maintain a lasting, juicy connection! 💦💦
This is accomplished by honing your emotional intelligence(a core value in my work with clients).
When you learn to listen to yourself.
AND listen to what's in the "invisible space" between you and your potential partner.
To what isn't being said... just as much as "what is".
To the conscious / or unconscious signals this person is giving you and whether it's important to address them...
When you hone your emotional intelligence you can actually gauge whether you and the person you're dating are on the same page without constantly having to wonder.
You will know when you've lost connection with a woman you're interested in and will have the tools to restore it. 💏
...Because relationships are messy... and connection ebbs and flows and is something that needs tending to like a garden(especially if you want something that lasts). 🌱
AND the rules of engagement can be on your terms when you learn to listen and honor yourself and your partner.
So, a question like "when do I tell a woman that I'm dating multiple people?" could seemingly have a simple answer...
Discovering the answer that's true for you can also be a building block for your confidence, your trust in yourself with women and in relationship. 👊
#teachingyouhowtofish
with gratitude,
Katya
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