| Hey Friend, its your coach, Katya!
The #1 Reason Why You Aren’t A “Yes” For The Women You’re Attracted To
You know that saying “how you are with anything is how you are with everything”?
Well, there’s a particular way that some men show up to my enrollment calls that mirrors the way they show up with women...
...which tells me the exact issue they’re coming up against in their love lives.
When we get to the part where I give them the choice to jump into one of my programs OR not…
And the program is a “no” for them...
They have an inability to SAY “no” to me even though I give people complete permission and encourage them to be as honest as possible with me on this call.
They will find any reason in the book(which we discuss, of course) except a simple “no”.
Not a problem for me. If the program isn’t a fit, that’s okay!
But it’s a big bummer for them!
Because they just cheated themselves out of practice using one of the most powerful words in the love-dictionary and with a woman at that.
If ya can't say "no" to me, how are you going to say "no" where it counts?
Which leads me to why this is a problem…
Because this is exactly what’s showing up in their dating lives.
The inability to make a choice!
To say “fuck yes” or “no” and be CRYSTAL CLEAR about what he wants!
Instead, he tolerates behavior that clearly doesn’t work for him…
Like waiting for a woman to come around, waiting for her to get back to his texts, to finally decide that she’s ready to go on a date with him instead of moving the fugg on.
Or hanging out with a woman he’s lukewarm for simply because she’ll go on a date with him instead of letting go and freeing up the energy to attract the woman he’s a fuck yes to!
Or bypassing the red flags he sees about a new relationship instead of voicing his concerns.
This comes out of having a scarcity mindset.
Out of a fear of loss.
It comes from not wanting to hurt a woman’s feelings and wanting to be nice.
AND while all of those fears are valid it completely takes his power away!
Relationship is not the place where you want to apply the motto “beggars can’t be choosers”
It is your CHOOSINESS, your CLARITY that IS what’s attractive about you to a woman.
It is one of the fastest ways for you to show your value as a partner.
And it starts with a simple two-letter word.
with gratitude,
Katya |
