| Hey Friend, its your coach, Katya!
If you're not "clear" about what you really want in a partner
If you'd like to discover the next version of what really lights your heart on fire...
Then I invite you to go out and explore
To experience different types of people
To date around
To understand the flavors that are out there
If you can let go of looking through the lens of “is he it? Is she it?”
You might even enjoy yourself in the process 😉
Okay no promises! Enjoyment is optional.
You will for sure learn something about yourself
You will learn about what you want
You will definitely learn about what you don’t want
This is an especially important process if you want to attract someone different
If you'd like to do things differently in this arena
Ask questions. Feel the essence of the person in front of you. Get curious about things you’d typically never be curious about.
If you can do this with some semblance of detachment.
If you can do this while still communicating and being honest and honoring people's hearts… including your own.
You will soon get to a place.
That place will be back home to your deepest desires
To latest upgraded version of what you really want
With new knowledge, clarity and certainty.
❤️ This is a lovely place to attract and choose love from. ❤️
But if instead you find that this experiment has you ricocheting all over the place.
If you find yourself attached at length to all the wrong people on your discovery of what you truly want.
If you find that you’re getting lost in potential partners ideologies
Fancying them as the answer to your problems…
If you find that you losing your own voice
Putting potential partners on a pedestal
And diminishing yourself in the process
Then my dear friend you may have some work to do.
Your work is within.
Strengthening and honoring what’s already there.
Validating your own experience
Valuing what you bring to the table
And sharing that!
And deepening your relationship to your “wholeness” so that you can prepare yourself for another “whole heart”
For this might I suggest that you consider a coach / therapist / guide / someone who speaks to your heart and whom you trust to hold it and can help you navigate this delicate journey.
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with gratitude,
Katya |
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