Hi Friend,
How are you? I hope you and your family are doing well. I am so grateful for you and our sweet Earth Angels community.
How are you doing with your Energy Balancing Sessions? Do you have any questions about it?
Lately, I've been thinking about a topic and I wanted to share with you which may help you as you do your sessions with others.
The topic is Indecisiveness.
How to Get Rid of Indecisiveness and Be More Confident?
Why are we sometimes so indecisive?
How do some people make decisions so quickly?
How can we be more confident and decisive?
Why are we sometimes indecisive?
When I do Energy Balancing Sessions with people, I am sometimes perplexed as to why some people remain so stuck. They simple won't make decisions to take the actions necessary and move forward, even if it's just a small step, while on the other hand, others move forward in leaps and bounds.
I discovered that these people who are stuck are not only afraid of making mistakes but they are hiding from deeper reasons that really need to be resolved! These deeper reasons are somethings they've been hiding from so they may or may not be aware of it. The good news is these deeper reasons can be resolved permanently.
Why are we so afraid of making mistakes?
If people didn't have kind, faith-filled, brave, trusting, self-aware parents, they may feel afraid of making mistakes because their fearful parents most likely have been punishing them for every single mistake they've ever made.
"Spare the rod, spoil the child." That outdated parenting motto has caused a lot of damage in people. That parenting style produces people who feel unsafe making mistakes, insecure, and unhappy.
Instead, it creates people who:
hold ourselves back with shame
hide behind excuses and addictions
rely on other people to make the decision for them
blame and criticize themselves and others
self-sabotage, self-punish, and self-reject
With this kind of upbringing, we always want be overly cautious and even overly suspicious? Naturally, this leads to perfection paralysis, where we won't make decisions if we aren't sure it will be the best right decision because we want to minimize the risk of being punished.
Those punishments could be physical, mental, or emotional abuse. Because that association has been repeated and reinforced so many times, we are conditioned to be hesitant and to self punish when we make mistakes now as adults.
Do you find yourself criticizing you, hiding, and spiraling down to despair and depression anytime you mess up?
What is the real pain behind the punishments?
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