We mightn’t express these thoughts aloud, but our actions speak strongly. There’s a wave of self-lessness — particularly amongst women. An epidemic of ‘lovely’. An entrenched habit of generosity towards almost everyone else but ourselves.
Behind it, we’re tired. We’re secretly frustrated. We’re disappointed and feeling let down.
Worse, there’s a nagging thought that it’s not really about others pushing into line ahead of us (the way we sometimes like to complain about). It’s about us letting people in.
We’re the ones shaping these patterns. We’re the ones saying ‘yes’ to other people and ‘no’ to ourselves. It’s not ‘just how life is’ at all. It’s just how we’re making things…
Have you become so comfortable showing other people they’re worth it that you’ve lost yourself in the process?
We’d love you to dive into our Mindset Gremlins workshop on 22 July at QT Canberra — guilt-free, all-in, enjoying every second of the time you invest in yourself, your well-being, your relationships, your own work instead of the work you do to mop up all the mess around you.
You are worth the two hours you can spend investing in you.